There is never a special way to end a story.
People use the line – Happily Ever After. The
fact might be that the ending is happy however
the ending is far from now. There is a lot that
makes, breaks, shifts and moulds a relationship.
There are various factors or variables that
influences changes in a relationship. None of these
are really visible. They can’t be felt but they can
be experienced indirectly in a sense of some life –
force that gives you a purpose or a direction. I
have never ever felt so special the way I have
now. I realize that it was destiny I created that
makes me feel this way. I also know there is a
higher power at work aiding me. I’m lucky and
feel special being a part of what I have around
me. I see it as a special relationship. It’s a special
friendship. It is a special kind of love.
Emotions are something that need to be
released. You can not hold it and try to keep it
within. They need to be released. Sometimes you
know you might end up losing a love or breaking
trust or even sacrificing your position by doing
so. However, the long term benefits outweigh the
short term effects. It is important to remember
that if the past is blocking you from the future,
you need to remove or overcome it. Keeping
yourself in a mix of both time and place will only
affect your better judgment. When you love
someone you also love yourself. when you talk
about love and emotions, you also realize there
comes great responsibility. you realize that you
need to be there for the good and the bad. One
can not say that he is limited to love, or can do
things to a certain limit.
There is a belief inside me that suggests that one
might lust for someone. There is nothing wrong
with that as long as the lust is converted in to
love. It is hard explaining what makes
understand it if one experiences it. Love and
friendship however have a different note of
separation. I would sacrifice my love to remain a
friend but at the same time would put love ahead
of friendship if the chance arose.
Making mistakes is something that happens in
life. But understanding and overcoming them is
important. In a relationship it is important to be
ready to take a break when you need one and
look at oneself in the mirror. It is not important to
change, It is more important to realize why you
need to change or rather if you need to. Don’t
change just because people tell you. You need to
realize it first.
When it comes to commitment – if you feel the
one you love is the right one, go for it. Don’t let
things delay and at the same time don’t push for
it. Those are things I have learned and I feel that
are worth others thinking about. To me family
isn’t just your blood relatives but it also includes
your soul mates or your closest friends that you
trust and confide in. They are those who also
confide and maintain your trust.
Let me end this book with a few words from a
dear friend of mine.
“Loss of loved ones makes me shiver….&
parents and family make me want to live
-Written By Shivam Parikh.